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[Daggy1974]

Hi Guys! Just wanted to take some time to say hello to this community. I've recently been handed the divorce card by my partner. She says she is depressed and wants to do something with her life. She said that for wants, she wants to be selfish and do things on her own, without me.

I see a lot of BPD behaviors in her that are talked about. And looking forward to learning more.

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[SaltyDawg]

I see that nobody has responded to you.

I saw your message.  Could you expand on the BPD behaviors that you see? 

The book "Stop Walking on Eggshells" by Paul T. Mason and Randi Kreger is a good place to start on learning.