I need a sounding board because I’m losing it

[Depression = 72% of members]

I’ve posted before about what’s going on with my u?BPD sister. Today I got a call from multiple colleagues about something else altogether and went on the website for the organization that hires me to run events to check some documents. As soon as I clicked the branch im supposed to be running key events in, the new board team popped up and guess who’s now in it? My sister.

I can’t for the life of me calm down right now. I feel like I’m just perpetually stuck in this hell forever where she just comes in like a sweet little hurricane and single handedly destroys whatever she touches and then somehow flips the story on me. She’s already gone as far as blaming me for kicking her adult child out of their shared home as well as accusing me of hiring a witch to curse her. All this with little to no contact over 7 months after 5 years of no contact. What the hell is she going to do now if we are working on a whole International event under the same roof? Someone please make it make sense. 

[DetoxLilly]

I’ve posted before about what’s going on with my u?BPD sister. Today I got a call from multiple colleagues about something else altogether and went on the website for the organization that hires me to run events to check some documents. As soon as I clicked the branch im supposed to be running key events in, the new board team popped up and guess who’s now in it? My sister.

I can’t for the life of me calm down right now. I feel like I’m just perpetually stuck in this hell forever where she just comes in like a sweet little hurricane and single handedly destroys whatever she touches and then somehow flips the story on me. She’s already gone as far as blaming me for kicking her adult child out of their shared home as well as accusing me of hiring a witch to curse her. All this with little to no contact over 7 months after 5 years of no contact. What the hell is she going to do now if we are working on a whole International event under the same roof? Someone please make it make sense. 

[Riv3rW0lf]

Well that's a crazy coincidence. I'd probably be going crazy too.

Did you know she worked for this company? Do you think she had something to do with the decision to hire you or something?

[Methuen]

This seems like a worst case scenario if I am remembering your situation correctly.

Breathe. Slowly.  Deeply.  Repeat.  X4. 

Go for a long bike ride?

Don’t react while you are feeling like this. 

Sleep on it.

When you are feeling calmer and able to think clearly again, does it make sense to shortlist your options and post them here for feedback?

[zachira]

My heart goes out to you. As I have shared before, my NPD sister has done everything she could to harm me with her smear campaigns and outright stealing of mutual possessions. Methuen is giving you some good advice to help you get in touch with your options while thinking clearly and think about what you want to do. Just know that deep down inside your sister is much more afraid of you than you are of her, which sounds crazy and it is.