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Monkeybranch
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Hello Monkeybranch and welcome to the group -- this is a good place to meet and relate to others who have coped with a relationship with a pwBPD (person with BPD).
What were some of the confusing things about the end of your relationship?
Fill us in whenever works for you;
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Hello Monkey Branch,
I'm glad you found this support group, what your experiencing is due to FOG. (fear, obligation and guilt). I like to say that once you get out of the FOG everything will add up.
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Quote from: Monkeybranch on June 05, 2023, 09:48:07 PM
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My relationship has ended and i'm still confused of what happened.
Welcome to the fam.
Now, you came to us to vent and work through this difficult situation so now let us help you and support you by giving us some details about yourself, your ex, and your relationship.
Please be kind to you and take care of yourself.
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