You can call if selfish, but calling it evil is probably going too far.
Evil - profoundly immoral and wicked.
Immoral - not conforming to accepted standards of morality.
Wicked - evil or morally wrong. / playfully mischievous.
Explain to me what part of abandoning your husband associating with other men ignoring him and wanting a divorce does not fit the definition of evil biblically ?
1.Bible doesn't say, my guess is to promote harmony in a marriage. If both sides are equal, there would be constant fighting for control.
Because men are better decision makers and the original sin was committed through Eve onto Adam the moral of the story is man should not obey woman and woman should obey man. This is why throughout all the bible there are verses of men having authority over women and for women to be silent and have meek and quiet spirits and goes further to warn again contentious , rebellious argumentative women and that men should avoid these women at all costs.
Once married biblically your wife should not "turn into" 1 of these women if she does then she's being evil / rebellious and sinful in old times it wouldn't be tolerated. In todays society its seen as fine and men get the blame.
2. It might help if you provided some verses. Proverbs talks about the adulterous woman and how it can destroy a man. Avoiding those who are evil is important in avoiding harm and following God.
Based on KJV (The only bible version i read and accept as true)
Proverbs 5:6 (all of proverbs basically talks about evil / bad women)
Proverbs 7:24-26
Mark 10:12
1 Timothy 5:13
Genesis 3:16 (God punishing eve with childbirth and saying her husband will RULE over thee)
1 Timothy 2:15 (Childbirth being a way for a woman to be saved guessing becoming a mother helps defeat that original sin evil)
Already mentioned Delilah, Salome, Potiphar’s Wife, Jezebel and Eve
We can turn this into a bible debate the bibles very clear about evil women the role of a wife who has authority over them and its pretty obvious why.
Satan used Eve to get to Adam (women are a mans weakness) Throughout history men have fallen to women including kingdoms people have died because of a love for a woman etc if you were to ask me how many things could trully break me in this life i could easily count them on 1 hand and 1 of those would be what my wife is doing to me right now what does that say.
Satan uses women / tempts them to destroy men to destroy the family to destroy Gods creation and plan (marriage) and he uses women to tempt men to sin and be unfaithful to also destroy families and marriages.
If my wife was trully bibilical and God fearing she would act like a christian show love and forgiveness allow me to also fullfill my duty as a her husband to apologize humble myself for my mistakes put down my pride and stubborness and to serve her and keep our marriage together. Because she isn't following Gods word or behaving in a christian way satan is misleading her into a path of destruction and to destroy our marriage and ruin both of our lives.
I believe every woman and probably men also have a battle they fight inside them against evil desires its part of the "flesh" satan has deceived women to be rebellious against men he tricks them this is how feminism destroyed women it gave them a taste for power and independance at the expense of men. What has happened to marriages and the family unit in society now has been a gradual decay. Some women overcome this evil and submit themselves to there husbands and leave very happy and peaceful lives others embrace it and destroy mens lives and also there own at the same time. It isn't until much later in life they start to regret it especially if it leads to divorce / having no children etc.
I think about all of this and it pains me greatly because i consider myself a pretty good person overall i have some flaws for sure pride/stubborness/lacking in communication skills etc
But i don't drink , smoke , do any drugs , no porn i lead a decently healthy life i have a good heart im kind and charitable and willing to always help people and animals as well i would do almost anything to help my wife and sacrifice myself for her if needed. Yet im treated like this and being dragged down a destructive path into divorce.
I read stories of husbands who bash there wives have cheated on them multiple times and wife stays with them and works through it this to me is absolutely mindblowing if i did something like this to my wife id expect her to leave no questions asked yet these people overcome some of the most difficult situations life could probably throw at you.
Mine ? had difficult time in life was depressed wife kept fighting with me so decided to abandon me and not give me a single chance to fix it ? Amazing woman super loyal couldn't of asked for more and people keep throwing it at me like oh you shouldn't think of her like this. Like seriously seeing the person you love literally abandon you and wants to divorce you is the most demoralizing trust breaking sad sinful thing you could ever see the person you love do to you ontop of attention seeking from other men.