Hi Coteau;
Although we aren't able to recommend therapists we haven't personally worked with (
per our guideline 1.12), we can talk through ways to find therapists who best fit your needs and beliefs.
My H and I have seen a marriage counselor for many years. We connected with him because he was also a member of our church, which is small and has some unique beliefs. It would have been hard for us to see a secular MC because of our beliefs. I also found my individual counselor through connections in our church community.
If you are associated with a church/parish, would you feel comfortable asking a priest or staff member for recommendations? Even if a therapist is local, he/she may still be willing to do online sessions. My counselor is close by but did remote sessions when there were covid restrictions.
You can also use the psychologytoday.com "find a therapist" search tool at the top of their home page. Start searching by your city/state or ZIP code, then you can narrow the search by type of therapy, issues, religion, etc. Catholicism may not be listed under their religions, but you could try searching Christian therapists, then looking to see if Catholic is listed.
It's also perfectly fine to call up either therapists, or therapy groups/practices, describe your situation, and ask for recommendations or referrals.
There's also a website called
https://www.catholictherapists.com/ (disclaimer: I just found it using a Google search, so I can neither recommend nor not recommend it -- just information purposes only). You could take a look at it and decide if it will help you.
Hope that helps you move forward;
kells76