Impossible

[BillyB13]

So this is the reversing board, and that is exactly what I hope happens to me and my BPD ex one day. It looks very much dead in the water for me, I don’t think she will ever come back. What I would like to see is some examples where all hope was lost and they come back. How did that go? Did you think you’d hear from them again? Were there police and other blockers? Etc. A bit of positivity needed for me right now.

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[thankful person]

Hi Billy,

Sorry to hear about this. How long were you with your ex and what happened? Why is this relationship so important to you?

You will see here on this board an awful lot of pain and suffering as we all try to navigate the near impossible within our relationships. Many of us who have children with pwbpds are fearing for their mental health and feel somewhat trapped.

My question to you is, do you feel you can have an emotionally healthy relationship with your ex, even if she does decide she wants to be with you? I strongly recommend you seek therapy to try and understand why you so desperately want to be in a relationship with a disordered individual.

I wish you all the best, I hope it works out for you.