Feelilng lonely and broken again

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

    My therapist suggested logging on since I am feeling alone and very sad.  My husband left me broken and alone 5 months ago.  I don't know how to move forward.  I wished he didn't have a gambling problem.

[Broken again]

    My therapist suggested logging on since I am feeling alone and very sad.  My husband left me broken and alone 5 months ago.  I don't know how to move forward.  I wished he didn't have a gambling problem.

[Broken again]

   This is my second marriage failure, that I was walking on eggshells but I did not want him to leave.  Nearing retirement age, and scared to start over.  I am ambarrassed and feel very lonely in this big home.  I am going out with friends, family and trying to do the right things to feel better.  I am scared.

[Mutt]

Hi Broken again,

I’m sorry to hear that you’re going through a difficult time. Even though the late stages of a r/s with a pwBPD are incredibly chaotic it still fills a void.

I hear from you that he engages in risky behaviours. Is your H diagnosed with BPD? How long were you together? Is this your first separation with your second H?