Broke NC and feeling a bit daft.

[MrConfusedWithItAll]

With stress at work, and stress of buying a house and it being my birthday - and having had too much to drink I broke NC.  She sent a happy birthday email.  I responded with a thanks.  A few emails exchanging news followed.  A few days ago she asked, via email, if we could meet up.  Her kids, herself and my kids and myself.  I responded saying I would not be meeting up with her and there were no hard feelings and wishing her well.  I guess this triggered her because she responded quite angrily that I was still angry and how sad it all was that I was still angry.  Funny thing is I don't feel angry at all.  I feel guilty that I broke eight months of NC only to trigger her.  I have no doubt she is still with my replacement and things are falling apart. Back to NC again I guess.

[mitatsu]

Hey great lesson in self strength   shows you what you were dealing with and that your gaining your boundery's back

[sun seeker]

 Hey Mr C

I know I have been there. Stressed & special days and all. I wished I handled myself as you did a year ago. Ive been n/c and I wil not falter again!  Awesome strength  glad to read this today.

[downwhim]

Be proud of yourself. You could have met up with her and didn't. Great job... .back to N/C.

[MrConfusedWithItAll]

Thanks everyone for the supportive comments.  Yes it is true I can claim some credit for not meeting up.  I have never had this before.  I have been discarded before but not like this.  Discarded for another yet she still persists in trying to triangulate.  Plain crazy.