She thinks I have changed into "this person"... what do i tell her?

[waverider]

I used to have a bad habit of saying I needed something rather than would like something. i gave my partner the job of pulling me when i did it, and a pwBPD will notice if you do it. So the message kind of rubbed off

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[Cipher13]

I know I can change how I interact. Soemtimes those changes are easy other times they come at a price. I have been trying to really keep in mind how I use words and what words I use.