Hey Bres',
What has been the history of the contact that last 4 months? It's a little hard to follow.
I finally left him for good four weeks ago and he’s already in another relationship. What I’ve described above is merely a “taste” of the hell he’s put me through. I’m a complete mess and have to go cry now. Thanks for listening.
You left?
Before my exuBPDbf "abandoned" me and went N/C
He left?
I've been NC or CC (meaning he texts me but I don't respond) for months.
When did you tell him he needed to get treatment for addiction and start therapy as a condition of getting back together if you are not responding. Where you both discussing reconnecting?
Yet I still occasionally receive threats of a RO (meaning he texts me but I don't respond) for months.
What are you doing that is causing him to seek an RO? Or what is he saying you are doing? How is he threatening an RO and trying to reengage?
I know you said that you and he have recycled many times in the last 5 years, he has had several torn muscles and ligaments recently and abuses his Rx pain meds, and he claims you are abusive and mentally ill and vs versa. And you both care deeply about each other.
Most recently he told me he was in therapy because of me (?). His therapist was none other than the notorious Sheri Schreiber. I researched her out and well, I was horrified.
It seems like there is a lot of cycling of conflict here... . there is a lot of up and downs and cross accusations... . Are you two separate and going apart (like changing jobs, threatening ROs suggest) or are you in a valley of a fight?
Hard question, I know.