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May 19, 2015, 11:58:11 AM »
I wonder if the block/unblock gives them a sense of control or power over the situation where it is clear through NC that they have relinquished it... .OR that it is a step twoards a recycle attempt that their unregulated emotions simply cannot handle to go any further - in effect, too chicken to carry it out fully.
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I think you have it JRT. To me, it went like this:
She unblocks you. It triggers her. She blocks you again.
Simple, open/shut kind of case.
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Mine unblocked me via phone around xmas... .I would send a text every now and again to see if I was still blocked back then... .so I called her... .she hung up... .then I got a call from the cops
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My Ex will be getting no texes or calls from me, maybe that's whats bothering her. No Reaction = Best Reaction
A couple of years ago I would have called her out on this nonsense, now I see her for what she is.
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Of course... .you called her bluff!
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