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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Author Topic: Ex BPDgf Just Unblocked me on Facebook after a Year. Is a Recycle Imminent ?  (Read 2188 times)
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« Reply #30 on: May 19, 2015, 11:58:11 AM »

I wonder if the block/unblock gives them a sense of control or power over the situation where it is clear through NC that they have relinquished it... .OR that it is a step twoards a recycle attempt that their unregulated emotions simply cannot handle to go any further - in effect, too chicken to carry it out fully. 
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« Reply #31 on: May 19, 2015, 12:22:20 PM »

I think you have it JRT. To me, it went like this:

She unblocks you. It triggers her. She blocks you again.

Simple, open/shut kind of case.
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« Reply #32 on: May 19, 2015, 12:40:57 PM »

Mine unblocked me via phone around xmas... .I would send a text every now and again to see if I was still blocked back then... .so I called her... .she hung up... .then I got a call from the cops
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« Reply #33 on: May 19, 2015, 12:48:54 PM »

My Ex will be getting no texes or calls from me, maybe that's whats bothering her. No Reaction = Best Reaction  Smiling (click to insert in post) A couple of years ago I would have called her out on this nonsense, now I see her for what she is.
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« Reply #34 on: May 19, 2015, 01:08:46 PM »

Of course... .you called her bluff!
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