Broke up with girlfriend this week

[Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse...]

Hi.  I am new here and just this week broke up with my girlfriend after an intense, head-spinning relationship. She made me feel amazing and then, with almost no warning, it was over.

It's hard to resist the urge to reach out to her; she fed my ego and soul in so many ways I thought.  But the more I read about similar experiences and the many traits of this sad disorder, the more I realize I wasn't the "bad guy" and that I deserve someone who won't hurt me.

[TonyDino]

Hi.  I am new here and just this week broke up with my girlfriend after an intense, head-spinning relationship. She made me feel amazing and then, with almost no warning, it was over.

It's hard to resist the urge to reach out to her; she fed my ego and soul in so many ways I thought.  But the more I read about similar experiences and the many traits of this sad disorder, the more I realize I wasn't the "bad guy" and that I deserve someone who won't hurt me.

[Lexisdad]

Were all here in the same boat trying to figure out what happened and trying to heal. They are emotional vampires and no one knows what go's on behind closed doors with them! 

Stay strong

[C.Stein]

Hi.  I am new here and just this week broke up with my girlfriend after an intense, head-spinning relationship. She made me feel amazing and then, with almost no warning, it was over.

It's hard to resist the urge to reach out to her; she fed my ego and soul in so many ways I thought.  But the more I read about similar experiences and the many traits of this sad disorder, the more I realize I wasn't the "bad guy" and that I deserve someone who won't hurt me.

Welcome to the BPD funhouse. 

Head spinning sums it up pretty good.  The feeling like your high ... .and the crash afterwards seems about as low as it can get.  It will be tough but you will weather the storm and come out stronger, smarter and better on the other side.