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This is my " reach " for valentines day... after reading posts on here , i decided the best move was to show her i care, but not pressure her with a valentines card... .here is my intitial email.
" just watched the hobbit, battle of the five, and thought of you because you like those movies... .
after thoren died, the line was " why does it hurt so much, ? '''the answer was " because it was real "
I can relate. Have a good valentines day week, I'm not sending a card, because i guess you arent my valentine anymore, but i love you nonetheless, and i will always be here for you. It would be nice to here your voice.
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Here is her responce , which came immediately ... .like 5 minutes later,,,interesting because she hast responded to anything in well over a week, but when i said " your not my valentine anymore "... .funny how fast she got back to me... .here is her reply:
Thank you but I stopped celebrating that holiday a long time ago... .love among people does not exist... .Not in my life anyway.
Good movie tho... .
Hear Midwest got a lot of snow... .It sounds cold.
Hope your leg is healing.
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and here was my reply to the response, and I will no leave it go for a week or so... .":
Thank you for responding... .please know that love does exist for you... at least from my perspective... I love you more than words can say... .and i know things did have hurt you, and i'm soo terribly sorry for those things... .i wish i could turn back the clock and do things differently... .but the only way to turn back the clock is to look forward and not back. I love enough to do just about anything to make you happy, and right now , i guess that means give you space... OK... .can do... .how are the dogs and where did you get bit.?
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Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
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