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Bels23

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« on: January 12, 2019, 08:32:53 PM »

Hello,
I am new to this website. I heard about it from a book I am reading. My husband has been diagnosed with BPD and I would just like a place where other people understand what im going thru without telling me to leave him.


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« Reply #1 on: January 13, 2019, 05:45:43 AM »

Hi Bels23,

Welcome to the family! Welcome new member (click to insert in post)

Quote from: Bels23 on January 12, 2019, 08:32:53 PM

I would just like a place where other people understand what im going thru without telling me to leave him.

Then you are absolutely in the right place here.

Can you tell us a bit about your situation? How long have you been married? Do you have kids? What are some of the difficult issues/behaviours you're facing in your marriage?


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