Questions about BPD emotions & intimacy

[Depression = 72% of members]

Does intimacy trigger the pwBPD in the sense that they feel their insecurities about themselves... .and the relationship are exposed?  Is it about trust? Or the lack thereof?

[Harlygirl]

Does intimacy trigger the pwBPD in the sense that they feel their insecurities about themselves... .and the relationship are exposed?  Is it about trust? Or the lack thereof?

[Harlygirl]

Does the pwBPD "ACT OUT" the FEAR of the LOSS of an attachment/relationship REGARDLESS of love for the SO?  Even if it means ending the relationship, and living a life without the person they love?

[Harlygirl]

Does the pwBPD maintain "feelings" for past SO... .without really KNOWING what those feelings are?

[LettingGo14]

Hello Harlygirl.  There are excellent resources here:  Questions about BPD and BPD Resources

Including:  BPD BEHAVIORS: How it feels to have BPD

[Harlygirl]

Thank you LettingGo