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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« Reply #60 on: October 13, 2014, 08:22:53 AM »

Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.

I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue
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« Reply #61 on: October 13, 2014, 08:33:04 AM »

Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.

I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue

we found papers on mine. Sociopathic and borderline overlapping
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« Reply #62 on: October 15, 2014, 08:37:57 PM »

Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.

I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue

Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.
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« Reply #63 on: October 15, 2014, 09:15:42 PM »

Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.

I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue

Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.

What really bothers me is how she had me so sucked into the idea that she was so perfect and had no problems.
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« Reply #64 on: October 15, 2014, 09:22:56 PM »

Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.

I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue

guys they are never ever going to be better. They will leave a trial of broken dreams and promises everywhere they go. I'm over it. Screw here.

Its a relief to have something that makes sense of the crazy you've experienced and feel, while at the same time horribly depressing to realize that someone you care about is so wounded and really not capable of having a healthy relationship.

What really bothers me is how she had me so sucked into the idea that she was so perfect and had no problems.

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« Reply #65 on: October 15, 2014, 10:37:12 PM »

Agreed. Sometimes I feel like I'm making him out to be BPD, so it makes me feel better and make sense of things. And then when I read so many stories that are so similar to mine... .it has to be the disorder.

I think most here do that. I read your earlier post and am in the same boat. It was my T who suggested BPD to me. I had no clue

we found papers on mine. Sociopathic and borderline overlapping

Oh that sounds like really bad news. Was she the queen subtype?
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