I might be codependent for still love my ex BPD

[jojosad]

Hi,

I am having hard time to improve from my codependency with my ex who is untreated BPD. Please, what literature, therapy should I do?

Thanks!

[Turkish]

What do you define as codependency, and have you had professional guidance arriving at this conclusion?

What's going on? Do you have kids?

[Mutt]

Hi jojosad,



Id like to join Turkish and welcome you to bpdfamily. I’m sorry to hear that you’re struggling it helps to talk to others that can relate with you. How lob were you together? How long were you seperated?

[Lucky Jim]

Hey mojo, As Mutt says, Welcome!  I'm unclear why you are linking love with codependency.  If you are codependent, that's something you can address.  If you still love your Ex, maybe that's more an issue of detaching, as it is for most on this Board.  Fill us in, when you can.

LuckyJim