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Question: How did you score on this test
Blue - 144 (51.1%)
Green - 85 (30.1%)
Orange - 11 (3.9%)
Gold - 42 (14.9%)
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Author Topic: SELF ASSESSMENT | Are you blue, green, gold, or orange?  (Read 10107 times)
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« Reply #90 on: October 25, 2010, 06:35:06 PM »

I get it about why I frustrate certain others too. At

Blue 12

Orange 11

Green  8

Gold 1

I am bound to frustrate my husband & who I am sure is a very strong gold - especially as he is a strong gold (that's him to a t).

Similarly we have a clash as he (on the Myers Briggs) is strongly ISFJ whereas I am I/E,  N (strong),  T/F,   P(strong).


In some ways our strengths complement the other, but he wants me to be like him & is BIG on criticism.etc. This really affected my confidence (because of my qualities?) but I have been working on it. Eg, I bought a book called "I'm not Crazy, I'm just not you" * propped it up near his much loved TV - put a copy of the cover in a frame for me.

Am not wanting to go into my "stuff" on this topic. Just thought it is very interesting to look at the implications of these test results.
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« Reply #91 on: October 26, 2010, 09:18:44 PM »

Wahoo! Finally someone that is Orangish! (I am also very blue and green)

Oranges UNITE! Down with structure and tedious paperwork!

I am also an ENFP. My N and E are off the charts.  

By the way! I resent that chart calling me undisciplined... .my eccentricity and randomness is a form of discipline you know!
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po·ten·tial  adj.
1. Capable of being but not yet in existence; latent: a potential greatness.
2. Having possibility, capability, or power.
3. The inherent ability or capacity for growth, development, or coming into being.
4. Something possessing the capacity for growth or development.
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« Reply #92 on: October 27, 2010, 11:06:58 PM »

I am gold with strong blue and green and almost no orange. qcr
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« Reply #93 on: November 13, 2010, 02:11:19 AM »

 

14 Blue

12 Green

  6 Orange

  4 Gold
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« Reply #94 on: November 15, 2010, 05:31:54 AM »

BLUE BLUE BLUE !

Love it  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #95 on: November 15, 2010, 02:03:02 PM »

Wow, a plurality of us are Blues... .coincidence? 
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« Reply #96 on: January 03, 2011, 10:12:21 AM »




Primary Orange.
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« Reply #97 on: January 03, 2011, 11:01:31 PM »

hmmm fun thread:

I am : Blue 13

         Gold 12

         Green 6

         orange 5

I love how my dominate blue and gold clash with the order and organized part. That is so much the battle that happens inside my head on a daily basis. My lack of organization and planning and how everyday my head and heart fight to figure out how to gain that peace that comes from being organized and planned.   And the funny thing is a married a dominant orange green... .almost the exact flipped numbers as me. Silly silly!
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« Reply #98 on: January 04, 2011, 10:31:14 PM »

I was offended by being asked to take this test at work but i took it anyway and came up Green, oh well, i'm with The Green Party, so if the leaf covers then i'll wear it well 

Most came up Blue

Hi! i accidentally picked Blue in the poll, oops!
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« Reply #99 on: January 20, 2011, 06:21:04 PM »

Blue 15
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« Reply #100 on: January 21, 2011, 12:49:46 PM »

Blue + Green... .

wow... what a surprise Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #101 on: January 21, 2011, 03:31:24 PM »

I'm Gold

My hBPD is Orange.   I had him take the test but didn't tell him where I got the test from.    Smiling (click to insert in post)


Talk about Hurricane meets a Tornado... .yes we clash all the time
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« Reply #102 on: January 21, 2011, 03:37:28 PM »

Oh sorry

Gold  13

Green  11

Blue  10

Orange  1


Nope not orange at all
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« Reply #103 on: January 21, 2011, 04:28:45 PM »

Gold, Blue-Green, very little orange.
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« Reply #104 on: January 21, 2011, 05:04:34 PM »

green... .yep... .that's me... .except the "living in the future" part and the

"being wordy" part... .

i don't think that applies to me... .everything else does though!

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« Reply #105 on: January 22, 2011, 11:18:37 AM »

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-Very sneaky! Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #106 on: January 22, 2011, 02:27:45 PM »

What is wrong with orange? Not my fault the rest of you are so... .boring. 
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2. Having possibility, capability, or power.
3. The inherent ability or capacity for growth, development, or coming into being.
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« Reply #107 on: January 22, 2011, 05:49:09 PM »

You are type: Blue

Blue 15

Gr 8

Or 7

Gl 6

   

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« Reply #108 on: January 23, 2011, 03:24:30 AM »

What frustrates you. 

What frustrates others about you.

True?

Blue, and almost as strong green, with orange on third place.

All the frustrations seemed very accurate as well. I certainly is a mix of blue and green, with a dash orange.

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« Reply #109 on: January 25, 2011, 01:07:45 PM »

Green with blue one point below... .

I laughed at the annoying trait of being too wordy-- I am pretty sure every one of you on here already had that one figured out with me!

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« Reply #110 on: February 23, 2011, 12:52:37 PM »



Blue

14 Blue

11 Green

10 Gold

1 Orange
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« Reply #111 on: February 23, 2011, 02:12:46 PM »



Blue 14

Green 12

   

Gold 5

   

Orange 5

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« Reply #112 on: February 24, 2011, 06:18:06 PM »

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« Reply #113 on: February 24, 2011, 06:44:34 PM »

Green: 12

Blue: 11

Orange: 7

Gold: 6

So many Blue/Greens here?
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« Reply #114 on: February 24, 2011, 08:55:51 PM »

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The question that got me was: "In a romantic relationship I look for (a) a soul mate or (b) a potential spouse."

A) Not looking for a romantic relationship and don't see myself ever looking for that.

B) IMO, the term soul mate should be banned from being used, so I'm definitely not looking for whatever a "soul mate" is supposed to be.

C) I'm not looking for a potential spouse.  Been there, done that - no need to repeat.

Amazing how one little question can be so annoying -- Laugh out loud (click to insert in post).

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I felt the same way about that question!



I am... .

Blue  13

Gold  9

Green  8

Orange  6
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« Reply #115 on: March 07, 2011, 12:09:44 AM »

blue here second color green
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« Reply #116 on: March 07, 2011, 04:45:44 AM »

Blue blue blue Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Interesting
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« Reply #117 on: March 07, 2011, 08:51:53 AM »

Blue 17

Green 8

Orange 8

Gold 3

Very interesting!
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« Reply #118 on: March 10, 2011, 05:04:36 AM »

I was Orange with a large green in second
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« Reply #119 on: March 10, 2011, 07:42:23 AM »

gold and guess what all the things that frustrate golds describes my exBPD to a tee  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

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