we MUST keep our senses of humor. If you don't laugh, you'll cry!

Yeah, but remember these threads are sometimes read by hundreds of people, maybe including BPD-lurkers. With the BPDers that I've been involved with, if there's
any way to interpret something that I've written as negative, frightening, critical, or aggressive (in other words, to trigger themselves), they'll find it. Do I want that on my conscience as well as everything else?

PP