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Author Topic: Need Advice: I think I need to let her know about BPD  (Read 519 times)
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« Reply #60 on: April 15, 2013, 06:54:16 PM »

Everyone on this planet likes to feel safe.

Imagine a person you cared about gave you details of a mental illness and accused you of having BPD? How would you honestly feel?


Clearmind,

If my partner said that I have BPD... . I will ask her what makes you think I have BPD? I dont think I will into rage or start yelling ,threatening or cursing.
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« Reply #61 on: April 15, 2013, 06:59:42 PM »

@wanttoknowmore,

i dont think that puts you in her shoes though... .  

the question should be, if you had a mental illness, and a person you cared about gave you details of a mental illness and accused you of having BPD, how would you honestly feel

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« Reply #62 on: April 16, 2013, 08:51:47 AM »



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