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feelingcrazy7832
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
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Re: One liners from your exBPD that blew your mind.
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May 08, 2013, 09:30:07 PM »
Here's a good one... .
"I should have F--ed her" referring to a woman who apparently tried to talk to him at the bar one night during one of our fights when we weren't together.
Later that day he would be telling me he was trying to make me jealous and he loved me.
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Katsky
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Re: One liners from your exBPD that blew your mind.
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May 08, 2013, 10:38:10 PM »
10 months after she dumped me:
"Everyone really likes me now. I'm so popular."
"My boyfriend likes me so much. I make him happy. We never argue and I'm so good in bed."
"My boyfriend said that I'm the hottest piece of ass in the department."
"I'm not in love with him. It's an arrangement for the time being. He knows that."
"I don't feel suicidal anymore. I don't need you."
4 months later:
"No one has ever been so nice to me - we are moving to [... . ] together later this year."
She dumped him two months later.
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ComoLu
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Re: One liners from your exBPD that blew your mind.
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May 09, 2013, 12:03:46 AM »
Here are some of my favorites:
"I know you are sleeping with P... . (our adult son)."
"I was justified in cheating on you because you were mean to me."
"You made me cheat on you."
"Maybe you were the one who abandoned our family." I still live w/our kids and grandkids. He lives on the other side of the country.
And my current favorite, "Why are you being so mysterious and secretive?"
I have finally gotten to the point where I can just laugh.
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WillSurvive420
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Re: One liners from your exBPD that blew your mind.
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I wouldn't tell you IF I did cheat on you/sleep with another guy.
Yeah, Im totally going to go suck off 12 mexican guys tonight... . (in a sarcastic way)
Those WERE the DEALBREAKERS for me... . NC after that point, esp since at that point we were "broken up" but still having sex... . ?
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2 months good stuff, then it was all downhill
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my ex-BPD had just returned from a caribbean vacation visiting a girlfriend... . we hopped into bed and started messing around... . it got a little touchy touchy and she said "ow, it's a little sore dowjn there"... .
i looked at her and said, "what?"
she replied, "it's sore from lack of use"!
she admitted much later that she had slept with two other guys while she had been away.
you gotta laugh, they are so screwed up!
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