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Author Topic: Facing my exgf BPD next Saturday.  (Read 485 times)
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« on: June 02, 2013, 09:24:35 PM »

Next Saturday   I will be at a graduation party for my ex's daughter who wants me there.   She also decided to invite her mom My exgf BPD too.   I'm not sure what will go on. I know I will be cool.  I'm not sure what my Ex may do and It is not just me I'm worried about. Her sister is putting this all on and left my ex out of the planning and stuff. So I see trouble there too.    Any wisdom or advice would be greatly appreciated. thank you!  hoping for a smooth party.
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« Reply #1 on: June 02, 2013, 11:53:32 PM »

J, you were invited, you are going to support her - leave it at that. Don't engage with your ex on any level apart from civil.

This was your choice to go and up to you to not engage or instigate drama.

What is your reason for going?
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« Reply #2 on: June 03, 2013, 07:02:54 AM »

J, you were invited, you are going to support her - leave it at that. Don't engage with your ex on any level apart from civil.

This was your choice to go and up to you to not engage or instigate drama.

What is your reason for going?

I'm real good friends with daughter and she really wants me to come.  even more then her mom. I'm just going to  support and celebrate with her.  She was not going to invite her mom.   she told me last night she decide to invite her.  I figure my ex will treatment like she has been ,which is that I'm not there even though I was standing in front of her.  My ex has never really fought with me.  I'm more worried that she will fight with her sister  or other family members.  I don't plan to engaging my ex.  
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