after sole custody, coast is clear?

[livednlearned]

This is what I like about these forums: here are two very experienced persons in the field of BPD  (livednlearned, a board advisor, and DreamGirl, who is a moderator both with a bzillion posts each) and here they are helping each other out, etc and still needing guidance to know how to deal with the next step in this whole process of dealing with a BPD relative (much like a chess game).

Peer support for the win!