It's over

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

The divorce is final as of this past Tuesday!  April Fool's day no less... . hahahaha

Anyway, she has moved out, we are now divorced... . bittersweet.  The divorce ended up going smoothly in the end, which was very nice.  I handled it ok - definitely a lot of sadness on my end, but relief as well.  I know it will take time to heal and i'll be diving even harder into my therapy to come out stronger. 

I wish her the best; in the end I ended up divorcing the sweet woman I married initially - not the monster she became for the past 2.5 years.  It was amazing how she pulled that off, but I know it's the illness. 

I'm not out of the woods yet - but I can see the daylight ahead and I will keep moving forward.

To every single one of you that ever responded to a post of mine with a kind word, some solid advice, or a slap in the face that I so desperately needed; thank you.  Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Today is a new day. 

[ts919]

The divorce is final as of this past Tuesday!  April Fool's day no less... . hahahaha

Anyway, she has moved out, we are now divorced... . bittersweet.  The divorce ended up going smoothly in the end, which was very nice.  I handled it ok - definitely a lot of sadness on my end, but relief as well.  I know it will take time to heal and i'll be diving even harder into my therapy to come out stronger. 

I wish her the best; in the end I ended up divorcing the sweet woman I married initially - not the monster she became for the past 2.5 years.  It was amazing how she pulled that off, but I know it's the illness. 

I'm not out of the woods yet - but I can see the daylight ahead and I will keep moving forward.

To every single one of you that ever responded to a post of mine with a kind word, some solid advice, or a slap in the face that I so desperately needed; thank you.  Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Today is a new day. 

[Learning_curve74]

Today is a new day. 

I love your attitude ts919!   

[MissTajo]

What a bright post!  

Wishing you all the best.

[Mutt]

Good luck and best wishes in your new life ts919