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The divorce is final as of this past Tuesday! April Fool's day no less... . hahahaha
Anyway, she has moved out, we are now divorced... . bittersweet. The divorce ended up going smoothly in the end, which was very nice. I handled it ok - definitely a lot of sadness on my end, but relief as well. I know it will take time to heal and i'll be diving even harder into my therapy to come out stronger.
I wish her the best; in the end I ended up divorcing the sweet woman I married initially - not the monster she became for the past 2.5 years. It was amazing how she pulled that off, but I know it's the illness.
I'm not out of the woods yet - but I can see the daylight ahead and I will keep moving forward.
To every single one of you that ever responded to a post of mine with a kind word, some solid advice, or a slap in the face that I so desperately needed; thank you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Today is a new day.
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Quote from: ts919 on April 04, 2014, 08:15:15 AM
Today is a new day.
I love your attitude ts919!
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What a bright post!
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