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Well, well, well...
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Received a random out of the blue text today... . "just want to say hi, hope things are going well for you, have a good day! "
My replacement must not have worked out.
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Fool for Love
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Well hopefully you can just smile and move on
I often wonder what I would do if that ever happens ... Don't want the exgf back ... Don't get sucked back in
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Are you ok?
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At first my heart sank a little BUT then I remembered all the emotional turmoil he put me thru, the lures, manipulation, cheating as you know the list can go on and on... . His number is blocked, I just happen to catch it as I was deleting things. Curiosity got the best of me and I had to see what he had to say. Funny, it's as though nothing happened. Tomorrow would have made 90 days. For me, tomorrow will be 90 days. It's been deleted! He isn't worth my time for a response.
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Lies, not lures... . Even though there were those also!
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You sound like a very strong person!
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Okay, so I couldn't resist... . I sent back, why the contract after3 months? I've gotten no reply in 2 days. I suppose he got a reply and it's all good for him. I fell for it. Right?
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Quote from: giirl87 on April 12, 2014, 07:33:39 PM
Okay, so I couldn't resist... . I sent back, why the contract after3 months? I've gotten no reply in 2 days. I suppose he got a reply and it's all good for him. I fell for it. Right?
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It's OK, we're humans after all. I am set on keeping NC forever. It looks like it's working. Last contact from her was a week ago... . I hope that's the last one ever.
Keep strong!
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Quote from: giirl87 on April 12, 2014, 07:33:39 PM
Okay, so I couldn't resist... . I sent back, why the contract after3 months? I've gotten no reply in 2 days. I suppose he got a reply and it's all good for him. I fell for it. Right?
yah you fell for it. it's ok though! just keep resisting the temptation. he may use all kinds of tactics now to try and get a reaction out of you, including not responding back to you for a while (which works in your favor). just be glad you didn't send the horrific "i still love you!" texts or the "why did you do this to me!" type stuff--they loove to hear this crap. personally i think "why the contact after 3 months?" is pretty damn cocky and funny. I want to say "you go girl!" for that one, hah, but yes resist the urge to fuel the fire.
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Got to agree with goldy on this one!
Hilarious answer to him.
He probably had a really long LOUD 10 second brainfart at the end of reading that one!
Keep NC strong
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