My Ex Broke NC ... this was her message

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

i totally agree with and can relate to what willy is saying... . when i first read her initial message in your post, i said to myself "she is f-ing with his head"... . this girl sounds pretty damn crazy if you ask me.

with the whole app that is letting her contact you issue, maybe go to the phone store and see if they can directly block her number? that might work. anyone had experience with this?

[LA4610]

i totally agree with and can relate to what willy is saying... . when i first read her initial message in your post, i said to myself "she is f-ing with his head"... . this girl sounds pretty damn crazy if you ask me.

with the whole app that is letting her contact you issue, maybe go to the phone store and see if they can directly block her number? that might work. anyone had experience with this?

[JohnThorn]

i totally agree with and can relate to what willy is saying... . when i first read her initial message in your post, i said to myself "she is f-ing with his head"... . this girl sounds pretty damn crazy if you ask me.

with the whole app that is letting her contact you issue, maybe go to the phone store and see if they can directly block her number? that might work. anyone had experience with this?

its an app that i used to reach out to her a few days after we originally went NC.  But I never used it more than 2 times.  She has reached out to me on this app 2 times since.  It's Viber.  I figured out you can block someone on the app.  I have blocked her.  But there will always be a way for her to reach me somehow.  It's very easy.

[AwakenedOne]

Guys, your responses have been so helpful. I got very little sleep this weekend. She woke me up at 330 with the initial message. I never fell back to sleep.

I know the ideal is NC. But I felt compelled to try something else. I wrote this to her this morning. I can't block her. She always finds a way to contact me. No matter what I block her on.

XXXX, if you're going to text me about some bull, at least do it at a reasonable hour. I don't care if you're moving on or not. You shouldn't care what the hell I'm doing. Bottom line is, I think it's all bull. And if you want to maintain a friendly distance, that's cool. If I see you on the street I've no problem offering a friendly hello. Just move on. And if someone is really bothering you (which I don't believe) then just find out who the it is and stop assuming it's me. You disrupted my sleep for the whole weekend and you look like ass typing cryptic to me at 3am. Just stay cool. No need for drama anymore. And just FYI, if you continue to message about what horrible guy I am for I'm not doing, I'm not going to respond. Thanksl

JT

I bet you got a peaceful feeling after sending that. Sometimes you just gotta vent, it's healthy to get it out. Especially after how she is talking down to you in her letter. Good for you man. 

AO