I just wish it wasn't a computer screen.

[qwaszx]

Does anyone else wish they could just sit down with someone who is been through the exact same thing and just have a conversation with another person who has dated a boarderline. Sometimes I wanta just actually talk it out with someone who "gets it" in real life. That's my thought for the day.

[AwakenedOne]

Yeah, in real life most people have never gone through this stuff we have. Actually most people don't even know what BPD is. If I asked anyone I know if they ever heard of "BPD" they'd probably say "who sings it"? You know like if they thought it was a song title? Talking to people in real life would be cool I agree. Still we are all real here and it's great we at least can communicate like this. At least I hope you all are real and this isn't just some type of automated BPD response computer program. I know I'm real. Or do I?

[qwaszx]

Lol I'm pretty sure I'm real also "checks her self over once again" yeah, pretty much as real life of a human being u might find, "flaws" and all  and ya I agree, it's so much more complexes then I would even bother trying to explain. I like to just keep it simple, I have a mentally ill friend, and it's emotionally taxing at times... or even simpler she used me, and just leave out the details and excuses:)

I wonder why people never talk about BPD, and only npd?

[lifeafter18years]

I do wish all the time... . that I could talk to someone in person about it like you said that is going through it.  Sometimes it is hard to type what I want to say and express.  One of my family members actually hurt my feelings in this by saying since week one that I just need to move on and stop looking and feeling and hurting... . HELLO 18 years, slap in the face, punch in the gut, NEW GF with kids preferred over his own by his own choice but I am just supposed to get back up after reeling and put a smile on my face and move on.  SO YES! I wish there was someone to talk to in person other than my family.

[imsodizzy]

I wish i had someone to talk to friends dont get it and family gma npd mom spd and dad ocd so im haunted by personality disorders