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I'm not on Facebook - deleted it along time ago. I might be looking into this too much, but in Saturday my friend posted a video of me & a couple of mates jumping into a harbour. My ex commented on the video. All it said was 'is that in _____? So funny'
I was obviously clearly in the film, we haven't spoken for about 4 weeks now.
I'm not out the woods yet, otherwise I wouldn't be doing this. But, do you think it was just a harmless comment? Or do you think she might have thought that her commenting would hae got back to me? Because it did.
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Umm. I'm going to say that I don't think anyone comments on their exes a month after they broke up without thinking SOMETHING, some kind of emotion. But what that thought is I don't have a clue.
Chances are you will never know what the motivation was. I think that trying to settle that fact in your head will probably be a good idea because, myself included, we can all drive ourselves crazy trying to guess what our exes are up to... .
PS I wish I had friends who would jump into harbours with me!
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now I just see any and all communication from my ex as some form of manipulation.
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I was only wearing my underwear too
Just thought it was random for her to comment. It was probably just harmless.
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