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« on: August 10, 2014, 01:19:49 AM »

Since she filed that bogus restraining order I've gotten three requests from very pretty women that were obviously stolen off the net. None of them had any friends. Never had that happen before. I asked one why she wanted to be on my friends list. She replied that it was because I seemed like a nice guy. Come on the only thing on my page is political. Wonder if it bugs her she's blocked ?
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« Reply #1 on: August 10, 2014, 02:09:03 AM »

Since she filed that bogus restraining order I've gotten three requests from very pretty women that were obviously stolen off the net. None of them had any friends. Never had that happen before. I asked one why she wanted to be on my friends list. She replied that it was because I seemed like a nice guy. Come on the only thing on my page is political. Wonder if it bugs her she's blocked ?

Yes.  It's a game in the sense that it's meant to garner attention.  I experienced the same when I blocked my ex.  I hadn't received fake requests over the years on FB, even with my request settings open to everyone.  

My ex made it obvious.  No profile pics, no friends, and those fake profiles "liked" my biz page, with no other profile activity.  I'd get a request, I knew it was him, and I'd block the fake profile.  Then another request, and another.

During a conversation last winter, he revealed that he still viewed my FB wall (he was blocked). Why? According to him it was because he cared.  Yes, it bothers them.  It's about needing access, needing to know you're still there.  It's all about need, their needs.  

I got so tired of the repeated requests that I finally just unblocked him. That put an end to the fake profile requests. I did that for me, not him, as the fake requests were upsetting me.  My attitude now?  He wants to look, have at it.  My wall is pretty boring - eventually he'll tire of it.  

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« Reply #2 on: August 10, 2014, 12:42:35 PM »

The odd thing is I got them all within a couple of days, I didn't add any of them. Then I stopped getting them. That's why I kinda think its her. I don't believe in coincidence.
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« Reply #3 on: August 10, 2014, 03:05:53 PM »

Yes I had a fake request shortly into NC - no proof it was her but I never had one before, and cant think who else would bother.

She's blocked from seeing anything and so is anyone I can think of who she might know so getting a fake one accepted is the only way she can see if I've moved on - which is all she cares about. Am I still here to be recycled if necessary. No I am not.
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« Reply #4 on: August 10, 2014, 03:07:04 PM »

The odd thing is I got them all within a couple of days, I didn't add any of them. Then I stopped getting them. That's why I kinda think its her. I don't believe in coincidence.

I'd follow your gut feeling on that one. 
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« Reply #5 on: August 10, 2014, 07:13:08 PM »

I think so too. Each of those profiles was created the very same day they made the friend request and nothing on their pages, even now. Who else could it be ?
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« Reply #6 on: August 10, 2014, 09:49:24 PM »

My ex has done that at least three times that I am aware. She is trying to find out what you are doing, for maybe a recycle and she is trying to see if you are talking smack about her for court purposes.
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