So its been 5 odd months since the demise of my rs with exBPDgf. Never used face book beforei know she loved it her source playground. So i joined to hook up with some old friends wich i did and that was great. I resisted the urge to look her up several times, knowing if i did that i might as well pass myself the shovel and start digging that hole.
Anyway i added a friend of a friend good looking lady pretty 'eyes' colorfull hair and tattoos etc.Got chatting on there wow the 'sparks' started flying great i thought, she talked about herself a bit and me
it suddenly dawned on me she was laying out the game and holding her hand out offering me the chance to 'dance' and then i realised i was halfway there to take her hand.
Arrghhh whats wrong with me, and the
BPDs are everywhere.
The good news is you realised she was indeed "laying out the game" and the bad news is that yes, they are everywhere, particularly active on social networking/dating sites as it is a useful tool for them to try and hook people before having to face the possibility of rejection.
Oh, and there is nothing wrong with you, it is them.
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