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He's gone...
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Tuesday morning, my whole world came crashing.
The love of my life had passed away during his sleep.
In a few hours, I will be saying my last goodbyes... .I cannot understand how I'm supposed to say goodbye to my best friend, confident and love of my life and move on... .how do you say goodbye to your soul mate of 20 years?
I'm completely overwhelmed with grief and pain. People keep reminding me that he no longer suffers from any struggles and he's free of all his torments, but selfishly, I want him with me so I know it will be ok.
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So sorry to hear this, Foreverhopefull :'(
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So sorry for your loss x
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I'm so terribly sorry to hear that Foreverhopeful. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please take good care of yourself.
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I am so sorry for your loss Foreverhopefull :'(
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Wow... .I don't know what to say. Nothing I say will make you feel better... .how could it? I hope you you if d just a smidgen in comfort in knowing your loss has effected me, and I feel nothing but love and empathy for you. I am sorry you are in this position, and in hope you can find peace wherever you can find it. My condolences
Quote from: Foreverhopefull on August 15, 2014, 12:18:07 AM
Tuesday morning, my whole world came crashing.
The love of my life had passed away during his sleep.
In a few hours, I will be saying my last goodbyes... .I cannot understand how I'm supposed to say goodbye to my best friend, confident and love of my life and move on... .how do you say goodbye to your soul mate of 20 years?
I'm completely overwhelmed with grief and pain. People keep reminding me that he no longer suffers from any struggles and he's free of all his torments, but selfishly, I want him with me so I know it will be ok.
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My heart is breaking for you. Words fail at easing any of the horrific pain and shock you are dealing with, but please know that I am thinking of you.
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I'm sorry for your loss, Foreverhopefull
This has got to be hard; please know that we are all pulling for you to find peace soon.
And I do believe that he is now free of his struggles, torment and sadness, and in a much, much better place... .
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