It's good to hear that you've moved on and are now happy with a good person.
While your ex partner will probably struggle and play games for the rest of her life. But as you said, it's not your responsibility anymore, which is probably a huge relief! True, rs with BPD it's like hell on earth, but in most cases we only realize it after they are completely gone.
You're so right, it's really unnerving to get those manipulative messages. NC is the only good solution, and in some cases blocking their number.
