Still Can't find closure

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Thanks so much Bliss

You're welcome!   

[blissful_camper]

Thanks so much Bliss

You're welcome!   

[nevertheless]

Boy I can relate... After 3 years of your my princess I today

I hate you over nothing... .I finally let him think and tell everyone that he broke up with me . The last month has been so quite I was finally getting better not morning what I thought that would be then today he emails me to say he is doing good and not upset and that his ex wife is in the hospital. Why why do I fall back in to his crazy mind games? I'm I stupid ? Why do I think if I just say some think kind that Would be the end but no once again I let myself get pulled back in. I say I'm sorry and I will pray for her. From that one email I get the raft of Stephen ! All it is a way to pill at my heart strings why don't I learn ? Uggg I'm am so mad and sad I let him do it again.

[peiper]

Looking back now I realize I was actually in love with a fantasy in my own mind. I don't really think these people are capable of loving.

[Blimblam]

Looking back now I realize I was actually in love with a fantasy in my own mind. I don't really think these people are capable of loving.

Hungry ghosts.

[blissful_camper]

Looking back now I realize I was actually in love with a fantasy in my own mind. I don't really think these people are capable of loving.

Now you're talkin'.   

Need = love.  This isn't limited to romantic relationships.  This is how they function in friendship, with family, and on, and on.   You aren't the first person she has mistreated.  There were others before you, and there will be others after you.  That's why I'm encouraging you to not take this personally.  It's not about you.  Remind yourself of that often. 

You deserve better.   

[peiper]

Looking back now I realize I was actually in love with a fantasy in my own mind. I don't really think these people are capable of loving.

Now you're talkin'.   

Need = love.  This isn't limited to romantic relationships.  This is how they function in friendship, with family, and on, and on.   You aren't the first person she has mistreated.  There were others before you, and there will be others after you.  That's why I'm encouraging you to not take this personally.  It's not about you.  Remind yourself of that often. 

You deserve better.   

Thank you so much Bliss