Second Coating of black paint-uugh why wont she give it a rest?

[Tom P]

Hiya Everyone.Ive had to take a few days out through work related stuff. And boy have things kicked off even more. After 26 days NC (which although difficult at times,ive somehow dealt with it) reports continue to filter to me that she is still slandering me with her friends in local pubs and still i have to keep my head down.

Yesterday i had quite an enlightening conversation with a former friend of hers.Who told me that my ex had claimed domestic violence from me previously (this was never reported,nor did my ex mention this to me)and that the times the police had to be called to our flat as she was kicking off,she had claimed it was the other way around.The friend told me that she didnt believe it,and continues not to do so (as she put it,she had seen my ex's temper first hand,and couldnt help but thinking that when the ex was spinning her stories.The friend thought it was more likely my ex was describing her own actions)

Last night i received reports from a mutual friend that my ex had posted a status aimed squarely at me. Her best friend since the age of 16. Who had lived with her but moved away, has cut her off since the breakup. This was a long time coming apparantly and my exs former best friend has sided with me as she knows the true side of my BPDex and has experienced it first hand (she also had mentioned to me that she had cut her off before we even got together,but she had given her another chance when i came into the picture. The status was something along the lines of "now ive lost my best friend to my ex, i hope your happy,you have single handedly destroyed my life, kharma will kick your arse"

Tbh im stunned,after several weeks of being slandered, of having to do damage control for the lies she has told, and after a relationship where i took care of her,kept her safe and well,as well as being the sole provider. This all gets rapidly forgotten as she seeks to re-invent her history and our relationship

I am somewhat in fear now, She has recently picked up a new bunch of enabler friends to add to her small group. And of course they have all fallen for her story hook,line and sinker. Where as those who have known us both for quite some time have sided more with me.Wish me luck please folks this ones gonna be a bumpy one