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A month or so before the breakup she came right out and told my she was doing a smear champagne against me to her family, telling me she had told them what a jerk I was becoming/ Heck I hadn't changed a bit and why tell me ? Anyone else have this happen to you ?
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Hi I am so sorry this is happening to you. Mine didn't tell me outright but my best friend has accused me of multiple things that my pwBPD has told him. All untrue of course. He has also strictly avoided having me around his friends for the past year so who knows what he has told them. Nothing we can do about it. Still hard to accept I know.
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I keep waiting for Rod Serling to say "You have just crossed over into the twilight zone" in the background
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