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December 09, 2014, 07:54:51 PM »
My counselor (formerly OUR counselor) suspects my ex also has some PTSD, NPD, and at my latest session he said he wondered about ODD as well (Oppositional Defiant Disorder). Yikes. I have to admit I see some characteristics from all three.
Does anyone's expw/BPD have or suspected to have one or more additional disorders/conditions?
Here's what NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) says about Comorbidity:
Borderline Personality Disorder rarely stands alone. BPD occurs with, and complicates, other disorders.
Major Depressive Disorder -- 60 percent
Dysthymia (chronic, moderate to mild depression) -- 70 percent
Eating Disorders -- 25 percent
Substance Abuse -- 35 percent
Bipolar Disorder -- 15 percent
Antisocial Personality Disorder -- 25 percent
Narcissistic Personality Disorder -- 25 percent
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Yes! Mine definitely had depression and npd traits as well'
Laziness and house was a disaster, mirrors everywhere as well as pictures of herself and kids, pictures of kids always included her and the single wall hanging pictures of her 4 kids were hung around a single photo of her! I could go on!
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Yes. Mine exhibits mild to moderate depression, eating disorders (compulsive overeater) and narcissistic behavior. So complex. I feel sorry for him and I feel sorry for me. It is not easy to be either one of us.
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Mine was definitely NPD - BPD,she also would binge eat. It was he'll on earth living with her. Never knew what was going to come at me.
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Coincidentally at my T session today, my T brought up that she believed that my exBPD is also NPD as my ex displayed a lot of NPD traits. Also, I guess not so coincidentally, my exBPD suffers from depression (she's being treated with anti-depressants). When I informed my T that my ex had been prescribed anti-depressants, she rolled her eyes and said, "oh great, she'll be a happier borderline." I wouldn't be surprised if substance abuse found it's way in there. I think I played a major role in keeping her grounded in that regard - same thing with her constant desires to leave her job anytime she had a bad day.
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Mine also had anorexia
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My ex has severe depression. They had just prescribed her a stronger anti depressant before she left me. She is also overweight. She was VERY overweight when I met her. She lost 55 lbs while we were together, but still fat. She would always take pictures of her belly. Weird.
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mine is BPD with antisocial and schizo tendencies... .
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