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« on: January 08, 2015, 05:57:52 PM »



Why has my ex not flaunted her new relationship? She never once mentioned my replacement, and made extra sure that no information about them was ever posted on FB, 5 months in and still no profile picture of them together. how would you guys look at it?

If she posted or flaunted my replacement it would be to make me jealous right? But she hasn't so why even after 5 months is it such a secret? 
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« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2015, 06:26:50 PM »

My ex has done the same. Been with replaceit may meen.ent for months and is still down as single on fb. Only mentioned him in a couple of posts.

Been wondering the same myself about what I
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« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2015, 06:54:20 PM »

Was it different when you dated your ex? Perhaps her feelings for the replacement just aren't as strong? I don't know.
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« Reply #3 on: January 08, 2015, 07:04:29 PM »

Was it different when you dated your ex? Perhaps her feelings for the replacement just aren't as strong? I don't know.

When me and my ex were together our profile or cover pictures was of us two together or of her and her kids.  It's been 5 months and not one pic of them together and the same applies on his Facebook, it just doesn't add up to me.
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« Reply #4 on: January 08, 2015, 07:12:02 PM »

Same for me guys. Don't know anything about what's going on. Only one mention of new supply on FB in 16 weeks as far as I know. And it was a picture of him showing her daughter how to shoot a bow and arrow. They may not even be together, hell I don't know. If they are together, she's keeping it on the low down on FB. Does it even matter at this point? I know she cheated with him and I know that matters. I'm really beginning not to care what she does. The only thing that matters to me is her 6yo daughter and that damn cat.

She didn't really plaster me all over FB when we were together. But she did post about me and say how much she loved me. Actually those posts are still there. We went to New Orleans for her birthday a couple months after we started dating and she posted about how much fun she had and how much she loved me. So yeah, she was putting me out there on FB kind of quickly. Maybe she just tells replacement in person the old fashioned way and skips FB all together.
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« Reply #5 on: January 08, 2015, 07:13:42 PM »

I removed my BPDgf from FB a couple of times after all the trouble that went on over December. At one stage, I even blocked her but given she can't see my profile anyway I removed the block.

Was informed by a couple of her ex-friends that her posts about me are still up, she still has photos of me, posts stating that I'm the best boyfriend ever, tags from when we went places. All of it is still up there.
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