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Callingallangels

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Struggling

« on: February 22, 2015, 12:40:27 AM »

Not sure I can stay , not sure I want to leave... .


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JRT

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Re: Struggling

« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2015, 12:48:34 AM »

Hi Calling

You are among people who have been in similar situations ad can help you with yours. Can you share more about what is going on?


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Turkish

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Re: Struggling

« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2015, 01:08:35 AM »

Hello Callingallangels,

Welcome to our family. What exactly are you struggling with right now? I hope to hear more and how best we can support you. As JRT says, you are among people in similar situations, and we'd like to help.

Turkish


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Re: Struggling

« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2015, 04:07:36 AM »

What have you learned in the 8 months since you first posted?

What changes have you tried to implement,and to what effect?


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