So I'm not really sure if this is the right part of the forums to be posting this question, but I wanted to know if anyone has heard this statement before, or something along those lines, and what it could be a signal of.
Here's my whole story:
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=271943.0 I don't want anything to be taken out of context.
I'm 19 years old, so is my uBPDexgf. Like most people of our generation, we texted a TON. This is where she really had control over me, where most of my verbal abuse (including silent treatment) came from.
Sometimes, over text message, I would directly confront my ex with time signatures, proof, etc. of exactly how she had manipulated me.
And more often than not, her answer was (and increasingly became) "I don't have to justify myself to you"
She became extremely self-righteous. When confronted with direct evidence, this was her response.
Is this common for BPD? Or more narcissistic?
Has anyone else encountered this statement? This sort of self-righteousness in High-functioning BPDs?