Does his trying to convince you that you are not supported by the church and/or God have something to do with what he sees as lack of submission? And how you have boundaries?
I guess the answer is in a sort of round about way. Currently, it is more an issue of my being in a leadership position which makes him 'uncomfortable'. Our church is the most supportive one towards women that I have attended. He is rethinking his own position and goals, so mine get lumped into his. We've been on this road before, and this time, I recognized the scenery earlier.
We've had other times when he claims that I am not submissive. Yeah, I don't submit to things that I (and God) think are wrong -- especially when I am being forcefully told to submit to his 'authority'. Submission is not the same as obedience.
The hindrance of prayer is in 1 Peter.
Thankfully, H is trying. He is seeking professional outside help, now (meds, therapy, doctors).