anyones borderline not jump so fast ?

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Mine was never talking about marriage or moving in it was me who fixed that more she wanted me "she fought for me" and she got me . I had a gf

In her words I was good looking, she wanted fun at first I was smart and she always dreamed of meeting a guy with smart friends and interests

But she was not telling me she loved me after two weeks it was slower than that few months I think .

Infatuation started pretty quick but it felt controlled

[dobie]

Mine was never talking about marriage or moving in it was me who fixed that more she wanted me "she fought for me" and she got me . I had a gf

In her words I was good looking, she wanted fun at first I was smart and she always dreamed of meeting a guy with smart friends and interests

But she was not telling me she loved me after two weeks it was slower than that few months I think .

Infatuation started pretty quick but it felt controlled

[Tay25]

Mine was the same, she didn't talk about future plans or anything because I think she knew it would scare me off

I think for mine, I was really just a trophy that she wanted to see if she could get and to show off to her friends like look everyone I have a good side! Or look I can get this nice guy to like me I must be awesome!

As for love, I was reluctant to get attached for the first 6 months so at that mark she brought out the "you don't care about me as much as I care about you". After this I gave in and started getting intimate with her, then there were a lot of "I love you"'s.