Mine was the same, she didn't talk about future plans or anything because I think she knew it would scare me off

I think for mine, I was really just a trophy that she wanted to see if she could get and to show off to her friends like look everyone I have a good side! Or look I can get this nice guy to like me I must be awesome!
As for love, I was reluctant to get attached for the first 6 months so at that mark she brought out the "you don't care about me as much as I care about you". After this I gave in and started getting intimate with her, then there were a lot of "I love you"'s.