Thank you

[gah]

Thank you to everyone on this board who really helped me when I was going through this with BPD BF.  I never in a million years would have thought I'd buy a house with someone and they would split, rage and devalue me.  I loved him, I still love the Hyde side, but I had to leave after a rage, after all of the lies.  I subsequently found a lot of things out and I know now, with thanks to everyone here, that the man I loved did not exist.  It's really painful and I wish things worked out differently... .man, do I wish. Man of my dreams. 

I admire all of your unselfish strength.  I hope the best for you and yours.

Gah.

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[waverider]

Success is about finding ourselves and rescuing our futures, it is not purely defined as saving the relationship.

Glad to hear that the result for you is a path out of despair and hopelessness.

At least now you know why it failed

[an0ught]

Hi gah!

I'm glad to hear from you that you are now in a better place Not all relationships are meant to last, breaking up is painful  no matter what our thinking brain tells us.

Thank you for coming back here and telling us!

a0