trying to draw me back in?

[Beware of Junk Psychology...]

Hi everyone, just wanted to vent here rather than vent at her . Doing pretty well at detaching apart from that I have to keep in contact with her for my 2 children.

I put everything on lock down,nobody other than carefully selected friends can see my facebook profile and I deactivated my old account and set up a new one.I had to log back in to my old account today because I play settlers online from there and there was a message in my others folder from a totally random name with no profile picture saying 'your ex is f*****g your so called mate,that must sting fella'.I can't reply to the message as they blocked me.Anyone else had this kind of experience?

My guess is that it is her trying to illicit a response from me 

[DestroyedKnight]

Hi everyone, just wanted to vent here rather than vent at her . Doing pretty well at detaching apart from that I have to keep in contact with her for my 2 children.

I put everything on lock down,nobody other than carefully selected friends can see my facebook profile and I deactivated my old account and set up a new one.I had to log back in to my old account today because I play settlers online from there and there was a message in my others folder from a totally random name with no profile picture saying 'your ex is f*****g your so called mate,that must sting fella'.I can't reply to the message as they blocked me.Anyone else had this kind of experience?

My guess is that it is her trying to illicit a response from me 

[TheRealJongoBong]

Good guess as to the source. No matter what it's somebody trying to rattle your cage, so it's not worth responding to. And vent away, it's the only thing keeping many of us sane!