"I curse the day I met you"

[joshbjoshb]

So after a long time of relative calm, my wife is on the rampage again. I am not sure what triggered it.

So today she calls me and yells for a while for all things that are wrong with her, and how it's all because of me, and she is cursing the day she met me.

I hanged up the phone.

Is that a boundary? A good thing? Does your spouse tells you things like that, and if yes - how do you react?

Would love to hear

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[walbsy7]

I am not sure if that is setting a boundary or not. I tend to do the same thing, which I believe can come off as not validating. But I chose silence, or temporarily leaving, or "cooling off" even though I am calm, and those things haven't gotten me anywhere because I am not being emotionally supportive of her and abandoning her. I look forward to advice in situations like this as well