need your input

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Hello again

Me and my BPD ex-wife had a divorce in 2012,  since then, we had a little contact by email,  we live in different states. After the divorce,  i was removed from skype . Last June she added me back but no contact  was made. I did a little search and I found out that she actually married around June.  A few weeks ago I was deleted again. Should I send an email to ask what is the reason for all this,  thank you for your input

[ketch61]

Hello again

Me and my BPD ex-wife had a divorce in 2012,  since then, we had a little contact by email,  we live in different states. After the divorce,  i was removed from skype . Last June she added me back but no contact  was made. I did a little search and I found out that she actually married around June.  A few weeks ago I was deleted again. Should I send an email to ask what is the reason for all this,  thank you for your input

[FannyB]

Nope. Leave well alone. Why give her time and attention and the potential to triangulate you with her new husband?  Also, if you do contact her you're unlikely to get a cogent explanation - just her version of the truth. Do not drink from her well of toxicity - unless you're still addicted and craving a fix?


Fanny

[enlighten me]

I agree with Fanny leave it be. It will probably blow up in your face. PwBPD do this sort of thing. It seems to be down to their emotions and at that point in time when you where added she may have felt a need to reach out or check up on you and see if you would respond. That moment will have passed now so she has deleted you again.