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Maybe we should become confidantes as well because we know and understand their dynamics much better than our own:)) They are so predictable. Always so predictable:))
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Quote from: thisworld on December 28, 2015, 03:03:14 PM
Less experienced, more naive confidantes will express sorrow and offer consolation:)) He will be a graceful victim, with the right dose of self-criticism (usually one word:)) and then will forgive me in front of them.
Hahaha, oh that's beautiful! Very funny, I am actually laughing out loud.
It's the laughter that recognizes a truth.
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Kierkegaard says “The more one suffers, the more, I believe, has one a sense for the comic.” I think that's us nowadays
Stay strong!
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I am most happy about being with someone now who I love. Met my current wife about a year after the breakup with my exBPDgf. It's been three and a half years since that time. During that time I worked on myself, met the woman of my dreams and married her. I am also grateful that I bit the bullet of being with someone who was all drama all the time. It changed me as a person. But now I am in a much better place with my wife and it feels amazing.
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