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Re: Not sure I have what it takes...

« Reply #60 on: January 12, 2016, 07:17:45 PM »

Quote from: Cat Familiar on January 12, 2016, 06:24:35 PM

I found a boulder and proceeded to hit the deer in the head until I had killed him. My sweetheart watched openmouthed. That should have been a clue who he was getting involved with.

maybe if you picked up a boulder once in a while he may behave himself Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)


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« Reply #61 on: January 12, 2016, 07:18:42 PM »

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Re: Not sure I have what it takes...

« Reply #62 on: January 12, 2016, 07:29:03 PM »

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